Who has a really hard time being nice to really annoying people?
I have a lot of friends and family members that I currently am beyond annoyed with. I feel like a bad person. Most of the things that are annoying me are very silly- and actually, I shouldn't even care. But sometimes... I just want to scream at them! I hate seeing people I care about do dumb things with their lives. Maybe they aren't dumb to them, but when I have to listen to them complain later it makes me wish I could have said something before hand.
I'm just curious if I'm the only one who struggles with this? Am I really a bad person? I hadn't thought so until I caught myself gossiping in my head about people and things that don't directly effect my life- thus, annoying me even more because I have to sit there and analyze everything.
I've been trying really hard lately to be extra patient with other people. When my mind is about to blow up, I stay quiet. Most of the time, I just smile and nod and try not to give any opinion what-so-ever.
It's been beyond difficult, mind you. I am seriously reminded of my sacrifices when listening to certain people talk... (see how terrible I am!). Ugh, help me!
I have a lot of friends and family members that I currently am beyond annoyed with. I feel like a bad person. Most of the things that are annoying me are very silly- and actually, I shouldn't even care. But sometimes... I just want to scream at them! I hate seeing people I care about do dumb things with their lives. Maybe they aren't dumb to them, but when I have to listen to them complain later it makes me wish I could have said something before hand.
I'm just curious if I'm the only one who struggles with this? Am I really a bad person? I hadn't thought so until I caught myself gossiping in my head about people and things that don't directly effect my life- thus, annoying me even more because I have to sit there and analyze everything.
I've been trying really hard lately to be extra patient with other people. When my mind is about to blow up, I stay quiet. Most of the time, I just smile and nod and try not to give any opinion what-so-ever.
It's been beyond difficult, mind you. I am seriously reminded of my sacrifices when listening to certain people talk... (see how terrible I am!). Ugh, help me!
